Teshuva For Disrespect
Posted 22 December 2013 - 12:27 PM
1) If a person was C"V disrespectful to a parent and then asked Mechila from the parent,
is the sin erased from his "spiritual record" ?
2) If a person was C"V disrespectful to a parent, and the parent was Niftar,
can the person still do Teshuva for the sin and erase the sin from his "spiritual record" ?
Can the person ask Mechila at the Niftar's grave?
Posted 01 April 2014 - 01:19 AM
1) Yes, of course
2) Yes, you can ask mechila at his grave.
Posted 01 April 2014 - 02:18 AM
How does asking for mechillah at the grave work exactly?
Posted 01 April 2014 - 03:55 PM
I idd this once. A woman wanted to ask mechila from her father who passed away, so her husband got a minyan from my yeshiva. we went to the grave and said tehillim while she said something, i dont know what. There may have been something else we said, i dont recall, but she never had to tell us what she was asking mechila for. I assume the text can be found in seforim on mourning and mourners siddurim.