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[Morgenstern]

Hello everyone. I need tips on acquiring good middot. Also need to know how to fit in with frummies in general. My natural inclination is to be very judgmental. I need to know how to overcome this and give good vibes.

Thanks in advance.

[taon]

Try different mussar seforim til you see one that sticks. try writing down the small improvement and good things you se epopele do. try to help people even more.

[Punims]

Everybody is judgemental!! Just don't say it out loud. Never tell anyone that you dislike something about them. That's how you fit in. No one likes a know-it-all judging person. Don't look people up and down and judge them in front of them. But, by all means - when you're by yourself, judge away! We all do.