After all this time and all my posts (most which weren't approved by the moderators), I am happy to inform you all that I became a chosson!
Yup that's right, she said "yes" to me!
If I can do it, all of you can too!
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Posted 09 March 2014 - 10:47 PM
Mazal Tov! That's great!
Maybe you can share a tip for those still waiting... what tricks did you have up your sleeve to fool her into saying "Yes!" ???
I finally figured out how a boy and girl are supposed to act like on dates - a boy should play the part of a gentleman, and a girl should be the girl in his life. As simple as that!
I realized that with the last girl I dated, we were both trying to sell ourselves as way more than we were - and it didn't work for either of us. This time around I just acted as myself - though of course I tried to show my best face, and she gave me hers. I didn't try to show off my $ that I don't have or anything of that sort, but I did tell her that we should both enjoy ourselves.
I didn't talk about any big stuff - I didn't tell her how low I think of the "big bad world" out there, and I didn't try to pass myself off as the greatest man either, I was "just me" - and guess what: she showed me she is "just her" and I realized how special she is!
Oh, one more thing: on the night I proposed I offered her an alcoholic drink (she is under age & I am not!)... now that really did the trick!