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[surviver2]

k i know i put this on frumteens but i had trouble getting there to read the ansers and cuz im in seminary i have random times that i have internet conections
i come from a complicated family situation
under a ravs guidance i left home in 10 th grade this rabbi my school holds of besides this there where many rabbis involved all sopporting my decigion to leave
my princabal was a neibor of my family and liked my step mother( i got no problem with that)
she wouldnt say anything to tell me to go home but she was telling her every move i made in school and broke promises she made to me even though she had been told by i rav she just felt so bad for my step mother becouse my step mothered cried now
i can forgive her for the hell she coused me with but i cant forgive her for not listining to rabbies when she always preaches about emunas chochomim i want to forgive becousei know how much damage i can couse her by not forgiving her any ideas how to bring myself to forgive her

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i can forgive her for the hell she coused me with but i cant forgive her for not listining to rabbies

first, i think its a really big step that you can forgive her for causing you pain! that means that you have it inside you to be able to forgive ANYTHING if you work on it, and try to think positively about the person and situation
secondly, as for trying to forgive her for not listening to rabbis -- every time you think of her with dislike (because of this) you should try to think to yourself that its really Hashem's decision whether or not she is wrong for not listening to them
third, how long have you not been able to forgive your principal? sometimes forgiveness can take awhile of not seeing a person and then the next time you see them you can grow to love them again

hope that makes sense!

[surviver2]

i have not seen her since graduation
and my resoni cant forgive her is the thought of the students in the school where a princabal doesnt listen to eabbis
thanks