9 replies to this topic

[jewishthought]

i dont have any friends! and i have no one to ask questions to or trust and its really hard what should i do?

[SmileySimcha123]

You have friends here (:

[danceInTheRain]

thats horrible. do you think you can tell me how old you are? it will make a diffrence to my answer. thanks and hang in there.

[smillingirl]

In my experience most people that say they have no friends, really do. They may feel that way, but feelings aren't facts. It is possible to change your feelings. It is possible to change the fact that you don't have friends by trying to make friends Try to be social. Go out more. Meet people. If you can strike up a conversation, you just never know whom you will meet.You can always use this site annonymously to ask questions, or share thingsif you need to.

[jewishthought]

danceintherain- why would my age be a difference in your answer?

smilingirl- i know that people say that they dont have friends and they really do... im not 1 of those people, my "best friend" just told me that she doesnt want to be friends and that she never trusted me!

[taon]

Help out with something. it'll give you a chance to meet people and something to talk about, and show yourself as a kind person. dont push to a close friendship, let it develop.

[7-yipol-tzadik-vekam!]

Help out with something. it'll give you a chance to meet people and something to talk about, and show yourself as a kind person. dont push to a close friendship, let it develop.

What do you mean by don't push to a close friendship?

[rocksdontfly]

probably means to take things slow and allow the friendship to develop, not so intense. just b normal friends and time will do its thing

[rocksdontfly]

when I was in 10th grade I had the same problem. I was depressed and hurting myself n I had no friends in school, or anyone to confide my questions or issues to. It's easier for me to give advice because baruch Hashem I'm out of that horrible, dangerous place. But i COMPLETELY understand how hard this is!! I really truly empathize!! The first step is to daven. Rly. Your merciful, loving Father and King does not want u to be suffering, and ur suffering is His suffering. If u ask for His help and do ur part, its a step in the right direction. now ab ur part..ur not gana like hearing this, but u have to be the one to initiate a friendship. u have to be the one to go up to people and say hi. u cant wait for them to come to u. this is ur life. ur in charge. ik wt ur probably thinking- they're ganna think im so weird! everyone already has their friends they dont want to talk to me!- falso. ppl will like having u in conversation and everyone loves making new friends!!
let us know how everything works out!
thinking of u.
<3, ur sister and friend

[jewishthought]

thats horrible. do you think you can tell me how old you are? it will make a diffrence to my answer. thanks and hang in there.

how would it make a difference to know my age???